"also, I found somewhere also on wp central that to add your site to google search you should also add your url here:
http://www.google.com/addurl/"

"Don't hold your breath. I tried all this and more and still my site doesn't appear on Google.

At https://www.google.com/webmasters/tools/sitestatus you can get Google status of your site - mine comes back with:
"Potential indexing problems:
We do not know about all the pages of your site. You can submit a Sitemap to tell us more about your site."

But WetPaint doesn't allow you to submit a sitemap.

You can then try http://www.google.com/webmasters/start/ to verify your site:
"Once you verify that you're the site owner, we can provide you with comprehensive statistics and error information about
the pages in your site. If you're unable to verify, you can still use the webmaster tools, submit Sitemaps, and see detailed
information about those Sitemaps as well as basic information about your site.

We offer two methods of verification. You can either upload an HTML file with a name we specify, or you can add a meta
tag to your site's index file. Choose your preferred method below."

Again WetPaint doesn't allow you to use either method of verification."